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I have seen this and I know that this man Master Lee is God's gift to us. I have been here for 8 years and recently got into the adult class; seeing all the adults and him fighting has been an inspiration. To see people fighting as real, but smile afterwards. How can this be??? Can this be real--to not fight just for practice, or just for fun, but to fight just to improve you skills, Not to fight to hurt one another but to fight for each other and to learn from mistakes. That is the kind of place I am talking about. You have to love God in this place if you do not you will leave the place loving God. There have been moments where Master Lee seems sooooooo amazing then he shows us how to do that. I know that all of you who are reading this will say no way and others will get in their car and hightail it to 63rd street and to those people God blessings to you Some get tired of hearing God, Jesus, Holy Spirit over and Over again if you're one of those people I am warning you you will hear what he has to say and be tired of it but he is amazing he fights with one hand and beats people in slow motion while, while teaching and once again while teaching them, he beats them in slow motion even if they try to beat him and kill him he still does not fight and hit back. Once again been here for 8 I repeat 8 years now and still not and never will be tired of haring the name Jesus... Jesus saved his life, yes, he did one day July 15, 2004 Master Lee says it every single time he walks thought the door. Everything in there is based on teaching and if you're don't remember something or you're not on the horse ( Doing crunches every day 100 a day Master Lee asks each and every one of us who walk through the door are you on the horse? The horse is a bucking and a kicking bronco it will do everything to get you off. and once you fall off it's a hard fall and real hard to get up. So if you come in a tip from one who knows a wise one does them at least a day before you come in but don't delay your coming in just for that just do you crunches.) Again, God's gift don't let God's gift go to waste. Use it like you would use anything else vital. Master Lee will help you find God if you have not already. As you finish reading this take this name with you Jesus... Come to Lees' Chinese Martial Arts Federation today Come today and think about, Pray to, ask of, and learn about Jesus God Bless you all
Mike Young
Lee McField’s Kung Fu Academy Review 1/2009
It didn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that this is the place where I belonged. Master Lee is amazing! He knows so many different ways for you to heal yourself. He’s like a chiropractor & a doctor all in one. He has many different stretch routines. I haven’t asked him one question that he couldn’t help me with. I never thought I could learn self-defense & study the Bible at the same time, but they go perfect together! I get to practice kung fu all week and have Bible Study on Friday’s—which helps me to stay humble, moral, calm, patient…
12/01/2008
My family has been a part of the LCMA family for over 8 years. My son trained in the kids program nearly 8 years before achieving his kid's level black belt. What a great achievement! The kid's class is great in curriculum not introducing fighting to the kids but teaching them movements, skills and self control that will be used later in their kung fu life. My son has learned so much regarding life lessons, teaching, self control, living a healthy lifestyle and the power he contains internally through his training and from the help of Christ. I have been able through the years to examine several other schools which only concentrate on fighting at the kid's level which in my eyes should not be a part of a young child's life. Many other things are celebrated in the kids class such as outstanding achievements and grades where the kids wear stars on their chest to celebrate these accomplishments. They are also recognized in front of the kung fu family during class. The next chapter, we are now members of the adult class nearly to our yellow belts. Although belts are used for grading in martial arts, at LCMA the true desire is not to be hit and not striking or provoking the opponent. Master Lee has set a goal for 30 days of not getting hit, which has become our main focus. It is important to continue to grow in belt ranking as gaining these skills (belt levels) will allow us through prayer to achieve the 30 day goal. I enjoy getting a zero, not getting hit for a minute in the line, but yet not being satisfied, not celebrating but instead studying the 1-minute sessions of things I can do better. During many sessions we are asked how many times did you get hit and are never asked how many times did you hit. Although I might have touched the opponent 25 times only getting touched once, I didn't meet the goal. Studying fighting to understand how, why and where the touch came from is a great challenge that my son and I truly enjoy. The third chapter is beginning with my wife and daughter beginning in the women's/kid's class today and we are all very excited. I hope they enjoy it as much as my son and I have. I truly contribute the kung fu lifestyle with my health. I cannot tell you the last time I was sick and felt as good as I do today. I train daily, eat healthy and continue to grow closer with Christ through reading the bible and Christian fellowship that I desire to do daily. Thank you Master Lee, Sifu Von and all the great students and instructors of LCMA
12/16/2008
After the first class I knew this was the school for me. A no-nonsense instructor teaching a no-nonsense style of self defense. The first thing I noticed was the sparring regimen consisted of one student using standard street fighting and the other using Kung Fu to defend the attack while using no pads or gloves. The results were obvious right away when a young man of eleven years was matched against me during my first visit. A white belt wieghing no more than seventy pounds was able to not only defend against my attack but efficiently shut me down and, when finished with the demonstration, had the ability to explain to me how he did it. I have been training in Lee McFields Acadamy for sixteen weeks now and have found mental and physical stamina I did not know I had in me. Master Lee instills a lifstyle of kindness and understanding towards others that coincides with a style of Kung Fu that allows you to effectively stop your opponent without being destructive. I did not believe that fighting and spirituality had anything to do with one another when I began my journey in Kung Fu. I know now that one is not complete without the other and in Lee McFields school you will learn to use them hand in hand. You will not be able to buy your way to a belt in this school and the work will only become more demanding each day. Your responsibilities towards yourself and the other students will grow with each belt you earn and so will the relationships you build in class. I have already received more from this school than I ever imagined and now my seven year old daughter is taking the journey with me, only adding to the excitement of what's to come.
12/22/2008
Every time I go to class, I learn something new. There is a wealth of knowledge to obtain because we train both Internal and External. My instructor is always available to answer my questions and is devoted to each individual's progress. Higher ranked students also offer positive encouragement and are available to assist me at any time. If you want to learn how to jump high in the air or do some Hollywood Van Damme kicks, join a gymnastics class or Tae Kwon Do. In our school we are taught skills that can be applied to real world situations. Fighting practice does not involve helmets or gloves, it is real hand to hand combat. We learn to control our speed and power so that younger or less experienced fighters should not be intimidated. Another key factor at our school, you do not buy a higher rank-you earn it. I have earned my white sash and am currently working on my second level of yellow. The LCMA standard for yellow sash is to block all hand attacks. One way for me to achieve this is from exposure of different fighting techniques of people that come to our door. So I invite you to come visit me, my name is Trevor and I may be conditioning my arms on the Muk Yan Jong, practicing my form, sparring, or listening to the wise advice of my sifu Master Lee.
12/23/2008
Lee's Martial Arts Federation is the best school that I've ever attended. There are real world applications using the techniques learned in class. Too often, kung fu schools teach beautiful forms but theor student have no idea how to use them for fighting. This is not the case with Lee's Martial Arts. When you train here you acquire confidence in your fighting ability because of the high standards. In addidtion, there is a pervasive morality that informs students when and where they must act. We seek to leave our egos behind and we do not engage in tournaments. Instead, students here focus their energy on perfecting their skills instead of trying to destroy others. Gerald Smith
Skyler Lillard
11-21-08
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I’ve trained martial arts on and off for 13 years and have been alive for 22 years. I’ve yet to see anything as effective as Wing Chun Fut—or as uplifting…in a world that's accustomed to being “preached to” instead of being “touched with” the word of the Holy Bible. Master Lee leads by example in a way that clearly shows how only the hand of God can shield him and the spirit of Christ fulfill him! How can a man 50 years old say he has not been hit in 30 years? I HAVEN'T HIT NOR SEEN ANY ONE HIT HIM IN 9 1/2 MONTHS! GOD IS GREAT AND JESUS IS GOOD!!!!!!! This is a phrase continuously heard where I train… a place where Master Lee fights at least 1 random person off of the street EVERY WEEK—First with 1 hand, Second 2 hands—slow motion. Yet, I've never seen him strike a person. He holds Bible study on Friday’s and shows how he fights with the Spirit of Christ. The best way to describe him is "Fearless" (watch the movie). I came to him a broken man. Every belt I achieve allows me to feel calmer and stronger—not just physically, but spiritually and mentally. We fight! It’s true—we fight without pads or gloves—just bare-knuckles and concrete—and no one gets hurt! Master Lee shows us that true Mastery begins with mastering yourself: Being proper not only in your Kung Fu but in your life! 2009—The world won't be able to touch our Black Belts! Attention: Young people, Old people, Healthy people, & Sick people who love Jesus and don't mind touching hands with who ever—seeing everyone as your brother or sister under God’s eyes and seeking only to be proper instead of harmful or even provoking…… Lees Chinese Martial Arts is for you! And a word to all those other instructors who are "selling self defense" but are scared and incapable of defending themselves that dare speak badly of Master Lee and of his Kung Fu: He doesn't leave the school, but his students do go on field trips… so if you’re reading this just know that we’ll be at a dojo or kwoon near you soon—maybe even yours—to touch hands and pump Jesus! In the end, we won't hurt you, but you'll see our logic. NUMBERS 14:9 |
11/24/2008
My name is Roland Ramsundar, and I have been going to school at Lees Chinese Martial Arts since August 2006. I came into the school weighing 225 pounds, much of it fat. You see, I'm a programmer, so I don't have a very physical job. I've always admired martial artists and wanted to take kung fu since I was young, but I never had the opportunity or money. When I visited the school for the first time, I felt like I was home. Everyone was very positive and friendly. Master Lee allowed me to spar with him and try to get a strike on him. I tried hard, but never came close. I chose to learn here because the school is very much about learning and having disciplined, moral students. Master Lee uses the Bible and talks about morality before every class, stressing that we have a responsibility to God not to hurt any of his children. He demonstrates that with his students. No matter how hard we attack, he does not get hit and does not hurt us. That kind of control takes mastery of oneself. This is the goal: to fight without getting touched or hurting anyone.
11/29/2008
I was brought to Lee's Chinese Martial Arts Federation in Raytown, MO, out of desire to study a martial art to protect myself and loved ones from violence. What I have learned has exceeded my expectations--this desire to protect has now evolved into a philosophy by which to live my life. Moral responsibility headlines every class. Many aspects of our training do not end simply by leaving the building or taking off a belt. For me, this includes becoming a Giver and teacher in all aspects of life. I certainly see positive results at work and home in my interactions with friends or strangers alike. The classroom has an atmosphere conducive of learning where everyone is a teacher and student, at once. No one is judged by the size of their trophies or bling, as there are none. The skills taught are realistic (no breaking inanimate objects with your face). Everyone is very friendly and welcoming like family; there are no grudges. Diet and lifestyle are emphasized more than kicking or punching. The encouragement I get to stay on the crunch/pushup regiment has helped me lose several inches off my waist while gaining muscle mass. I have also begun to pay more attention to what/when I eat, and because of this feel more healthy than I ever have. While I may convey this school to be a healthclub, it is certainly no vacation. It takes hard work and dedication. The defensive skills I have learned are practical and effective, but most importantly for me I no longer fear I must hurt my attacker to defend myself. By nature I am a very gentle person, and this school of fighting definitely promotes no harm. Here I am, 15 months into my training, consistently impressed with the results I experience. I have begun a journey I will continue for the rest of my life. Regardless of your background or opinions about martial arts in general, I encourage you to stop in and derive your own conclusions. Adam Henry
11/05/2008
I have been blessed since the first day I walked into Lee's Chinese Martial Arts. The first thing that comes to mind when I think about that place is "family". Everyone I've had the pleasure to meet has been so encouraging and respectful. It doesn't matter if you've been training there for 1 week or 10 years...they work with you on your level to help you develop and grow your skills. The most important aspect is that Master Lee is a rock solid Christian. When I go there and hear God's word it inspires me. For anyone wanting to try martial arts that is built on a Christian foundation, I recommend Lee's Chinese Martial Arts is the perfect place!!!!
10/25/2008
This school is the best I've seen, and even if I don't go there I do go to where my master was train and it was at this school. I have been to some of the events and man even a white belt people can beat you. all in all this school teaches real self protection. and the healthy life style is unbelievable I've seen people lose more weight here then going to the gym and work out videos alone. and well Master lee is the best role model I've seen. and man, the people there can fight you and beat you without throwing you to the ground and you don't get hurt either. and the mortally at this school is unbelieving everyone is so nice. This school must make God's smile.
10/24/2008
At nearly 52 years old I have spent a life-time involved in many aspects of physical fitness.So I can tell you I am not a kid who is impressed by the" latest fad". I have pumped iron in hard-core body building/ power lifting gyms where over inflated egos as well as performance enhancing drugs were the "norm". Where being a good person with a strong mind & body got lost in trying to look good..I have attended seminars with top body-builders including Arnold. I have also trained in a number of martial arts schools over the years, have been to seminars & have seen it all -good & bad. I have sparred with every one from Green Berets to small children.I have seen some people who were pretty good at fighting, that I realize now really did not possess very good self defense skills- they were just aggressive. I have seen big promoters who talked a good game but did not portray the discipline that they claimed I would gain from training with them. I have known Master Lee for a number of years & have been blessed to train under his direction for about 9 years. He not only talks the talk-he walks the walk. Master Lee leads by example & he sincerely tries to help students gain the most from their training from the newest person just starting out to the "old head" like myself. His skill is the best I have ever seen. His enthusiasm, sincerity & concern for his students & his desire to help each be their best shows in all he does. I am personally turned off by the braggarts with foul-mouths, who cover their bodies with tattoos, & go fight in"a cage" for a bunch of drunken spectators. True victory is not beating some one up. it is attacking your own weaknesses. & overcoming them. Traditionally martial artist were men & women of honor & character with strong ethics & morals who trained in combat to defend themselves & those around them. But in our anything goes, money worshiping society , morality never gets mentioned. How sad that it is! Lee's Chinese Martial Arts is a place where I have brought my children without fear of them being exposed to a "rough crowd". It is a place where I can practice real life self-defense skills without getting hurt & not being able to go to work on Monday morning. It is a place where I can fight opponents without anyone getting hurt but all learning from the experience. It is a place where I can sit at a table & discuss the Bible & morality with my sparring partners & we can get just as excited about a scripture that can help us avoid pain in our life as we do about a self-defense technique that projects our body. I have been around the block. If you are young or not so young Lee's Chinese Martial Arts can help you improve your health, defend yourself & develop self-control that will take you far.
10/24/2008
I looked for a while before I found this school. Most schools are all about the sport of martal arts not the actual study of fighting. I dont knock the sport as a sport, but I was looking for actual self defense and sport fighting isn't the same as real fighting. When I came into this school I was offered a chance to test Master Lee's skills and he defended me without hurting me and continued telling me about the school without me ever feeling I had a chance of touching him. Aside from his skills as a fighter, he is alway on top of his classes and produces great instructors that maintain a calm atmosphere where everyone feels welcome and the actual education practice is the clear focus. If you wish to learn real life self defence I have not seen anthing that can compare.
10/13/2008
Amazing, amazing, amazing! This is the best school I have seen. What Master Lee has to say about a lot of Martial Arts schools having instructors that have bigger waists than actual skill in fighting is so common these days. I would highly recommend just coming in one day, just to see what he has to offer. No blood/brutality necessary. ^_^
10/24/2008
First class operation. They promote physical and moral values. Good Christian people.
Before I began training martial arts I had a severe
limp due to a rare joint disease and I was constantly in great pain.
In fact my limp was normally the first thing that people would notice
about me when they met me. As a result, outside of people that knew me from pool
tournaments and pool league, new acquaintances knew me first as the guy with the
limp and then, maybe, Chris. The
pain could get severely debilitating. For
example, one time at work I was prepping the kitchen. I was in pain but nothing
too extreme when someone bumped into me. When
they did, pain shot up my leg so severe it knocked me off my feet.
I had to be helped out of the kitchen and was sat down for a while to
regain the use of my leg. Also before I found kung fu I played a lot of pool!
In fact my affinity towards pool drove me to work in the bars in which I
frequented. Pool in its self was
not bad activity, but all pool is played in drinking establishments, and because
of that, I started drinking (when in Rome…).
The purpose for my drinking was purely for entertainment, but it was nice
that a few beers would quell the pain in my hip.
I would often get off work, go directly to the bar and grab a pitcher and
my pool cue. The bar environment
eventually put me into a state of a total disorganization.
In an effort to find and activity that would reduce the pain in my hip,
and keep me away form the bars, I looked to martial arts.
What I got was far more than I had expected. I found that I could use martial arts to improve many areas
in my life. Now I have all but
eliminated alcohol from my life and have removed myself from the bar environment
almost entirely. I have also
practically eliminated my limp. This
has been a great and unexpected benefit from my training.
Because of this I have less hip pains and back problems.
Also, even after months of rarely limping, it is still weird to me not to
have to explain my limp to every new person I meet.
New people now view me differently than they ever did before.
Unfortunately the world has a strong prejudice against the handicap, and
it is nice not to be seen as that guy with the limp any more.
Although martial arts has not eliminated my daily pain, my training has
lessened it. I am now experiencing
very few day in which I am completely debilitated by my condition.
Another area of my life I found that my training could improve is my
future. My family has a strong
history of arthritis and sinus problems. Through
living the lifestyle encouraged by LCMA, I hope to delay (and/or) eliminate
these unfortunate genetic traits. Finally
my training has benefited me in that I now live in an environment free of
cigarette smoke and shady acquaintances. I
now live a life where my friends have more of a positive influence on me and
keep me away from negative activities. This
means I have had to rebuild a lot of my social structure, but I now see this is
essential to move forward with my life. Most importantly I will use my training as a tool to ensure
that I will never fall off the path from which I have begun.
Sincerely
Chris Portwood
The Benefits of Crane Chi-Kung and Loi-Kung
By Purnie Johnson-Fisher
It doesn’t take much thought to tell you why I decided to join the Crane Chi-Kung and Loi-Kung classes. Being a care-giver for my husband, Monte—who has been paralyzed by two strokes—my 46 year old body takes a beating. I am employed full time to make ends meet. I got news from a recent physical that I may have cancer. My son, Jason, invited me to his Martial Arts class to take two trial breathing classes: Loi-Kung and Crane Chi Kung. In my mind, I was thinking, “Okay, anything for my child.” During my tryouts of the class, final medical results of my tests proved I was cancer free. Now I have to say that after taking a couple of classes, I felt energized. After a few more, my body felt renewed and my body pain was gone! What pain, you may ask? Shoulder and back pain from lifting and pulling my husband up in his hospital bed and wheelchair. Hip pain so bad I couldn’t get out of bed without falling to my knees first—neck pain from staring at a computer screen all day and evenings. Caring for my husband is a twenty-four hour a day labor of love. I have been feeling like an 89 year old person. Any task wore me out to exhaustion. Even taking my shower was a chore and my mind was always trying to work things out in what little sleep I got.
I made up my mind that if I could feel this good mentally, and feel better than I did when I was in my twenties, then the Loi-Kung and Crane Chi-Kung classes were for me! I sleep so well at night. Even though I get up every 2 ½ hours to provide care for my husband, I have no problems falling back to sleep. I have learned how to relax and not allow things to move me to the extreme. My attitude has improved to the positive in every area of my life. I care about me now and I don’t feel guilty about taking time out to improve my health for the better. In the Loi-Kung and Crane Chi-Kung class, I’ve learned the importance of breathing and stretching and strengthening. Also, I’ve really improved on my eating habits and learned to be dedicated in taking what I’ve learned in class and practicing at home.
I believe that the Lord answered my prayer of putting people in my children’s path that know him. In doing so, it led me to a place that has not only helped me, but has helped my husband. I can see improvements in my husband’s breathing. Oh, yes! I do my Loi-Kung with my husband. I haven’t learned the Crane Chi-Kung well enough to do at home yet. You see, my husband is on a nebulizer which allows him to inhale medication. He was a smoker since his teenage years and has had to use the machine four times a day. As of today, he uses it only once a day and this is the first year since 1999 that he did not get pneumonia! It’s not a bother to us that people think we must be kidding. We just know how we feel and are happier that we both are seeing differences in our physical bodies. My husband and I have a slogan…..if one hurts, so does the other. It’s nice that now we both feel good together instead!
I want to thank my son, Jason, for encouraging me to try the classes out and Master Lee for passing on such a wonderful thing to my husband and I.
Sincerely,
Purnie J-Fisher
Jane
Wheeler
I started taking Kung Fu at the end of last September (2001).
I saw a flyer at the land I thought it would be interesting to try. The timing of this class coming
into my life seemed like divine intervention.
Like everyone else, I was feeling so tense after the tragedies of
9/11/01. This seemed so empowering
and life-affirming. After only a
few classes, there was some “hard to describe aspect” to it.
It seemed important that I be there.
Well, it’s been a year now and what a ride it’s been.
The most important thing I’ve gotten from taking Kung Fu is an inner
resolve that I never thought I had. Ms.
Von, my sifu, had us make a list of unhealthy things we do in our lives.
At the top of my list was smoking. I
have wanted to quit for years, but…just had a hard time taking that first
step. Last May, I took the plunge
and finally broke that nasty habit.
When you make a lifestyle change, I believe you need to use every tool at
your disposal to be successful. Kung
Fu was one of the strongest tools I had. The
Kung Fu Lifestyle and smoking just had no place for each other.
Kung Fu teaches you self mastery. When
you smoke, you give your power away to the cigarettes.
Your power literally goes up in smoke.
One of the first Black Belt Codes I learned was that “a Black Belt
Student knows that her words and actions represent who she is.”
I no longer wanted to be represented by smoking.
It is a weakness in character. It
was an action that I didn’t want to represent who I am.
I could either train in Kung Fu or I could smoke.
The choice was easy, but the execution was the hardest thing I’ve ever
done.
Smoking is insidious in how it gets into every aspect of your life.
Wake up in the morning—get your coffee and smoke.
Get in your car and drive somewhere—smoke.
Feeling bored—smoke. Feeling
lonely—smoke. Eat
anything—smoke. Watch TV—smoke.
Feeling stressed—smoke. Make
love—smoke. It’s like a period
after a sentence. It follows almost
every action you can think of…….so I substituted:
Wake up in the morning—get your coffee and stretch out.
Get in your car and drive somewhere and repeat your Black Belt Codes.
Feeling bored—lift weights. Feeling
lonely—pick up the phone. Eat
anything—go for a walk. Watch TV—knit or crochet’.
Feeling stressed—breathe, meditate, and practice Sil lim tau.
You get the picture. I also
used the Nicotine chewing gum which really helped.
Visualization also is a great tool!
I had a lot of conversations
with my Dad. He died in June of
2000. If I felt an urge to stop in
at the 7-11 for a pack, I’d talk it over with Dad.
He was very supportive. The
breathing exercises of Chi Kung are wonderful to help you feel centered and
grounded. Who wants to cloud up an
energy field that you just filled with white light?
I sure didn’t. See what I
mean about using every tool at your disposal?
Make no mistakes about it, you at war with yourself. The best part of me
wanted to win…..so did the evil little gremlin that lives in us all—the
little voice that says “just one more won’t hurt you.”……that whines
“it’s too hard.”….that wants to be bad and take the path of least
resistance. You need to arm your
“better” self with everything you can think of to win.
Your “best” self needs to become a warrior.
Kung Fu teaches you how to. Sometimes
I’d visualize a cigarette coming up to me & I’d see myself turn
sideways, point my fingers at it and say in a strong, clear, loud voice, “I
don’t want any trouble!” You
have to visualize yourself kicking the habit literally and snuffing out the
cigarette. You are in a war for
your soul, the essence of who you are. Kung
Fu can help you become that warrior.
It’s been 6 months since my last smoke.
Here are still times when the gremlin says “a smoke would sure be
nice”………but my “best” self is louder & stronger.
I have to think that a smoke would change nothing.
Then I take a deep breath and go on.
I always have my daily routine of Kung F and my class every Sunday.
Von, my sifu, is so supportive. What
a role model! I think she was more
excited than I was when I told her I had quit smoking.
Kung Fu can help you become empowered, self-confident, and disciplined.
At 47 years old, I thought this is who I am.
Kung Fu can help you become whoever you want to be.
It can let your “best” self be heard & honored.
It can put you on the road to success.
Is it easy? No.
Is it worth it? Oh, it is so
worth it.
alton Hanson
Master Lee's Student Instructor of the Month
Dalton Hanson
7/11/02
How I Quit Smoking
This is my second time attempting to quit smoking. The
first time was two years ago. I was in LCMA and became a singer in a band. Those
two reasons were enough to help me quit smoking cold turkey. The band broke up
and there were other stressful things happening at that time. So, I had a
cigarette. One turned into two, and two turned into three. Before long, I was
smoking the same amount I was before I quit. I was smoking a pack and a half and
up to two packs a day. Due to personal reasons, I quit Kung Fu for about a year.
One of the reasons I came back to Kung Fu was that I wanted to quit smoking and
Kung Fu would be less expensive to be in LCMA than to smoke. That was not the
only reason I came back, but I thought it would give me the reason I needed to
quit. It wasn’t that way. I stopped buying them but there were more than
enough people to help feed my addiction. The way I was able to quit this time
was in steps.
Week One: I stopped smoking in my house and in my vehicle.
Week Two: I stopped smoking in other people’s vehicles.
Week Three: I didn’t smoke one hour after I woke up, one hour after work, or
one hour before I went to bed.
Week Four: I didn’t smoke at band practice. Being around chain smokers was
hard for me.
Week Five: I totally stopped smoking.
One month and three weeks later I have not had one, a half,
or even a drag of a cigarette!
Fred Wise
I've been asked 'How have you managed to "live" the
Kung-Fu lifestyle?"
What's been my motivation and key to consistency? especially in a family
environment with a low regard for fitness and that thrives on 'good food'
(e.g. You know: the kind of foods that taste good, but aren't necessarily
good for you).
In a lot of cases, some people are faced with a life-altering event or
crisis that becomes the turning point and motivation for them. For me,
part of my motivation has come from seeing some of my own family members in
just that type of predicament. Some with seriously life-threatening heath
issues (e.g. cancer, high blood pressure, ulcers, diabetes, etc.); many of
which were potentially preventable. I do believe that 'We are what
we
eat': fatty foods produce soft, fatty bodies; healthy foods result in
strong, healthy bodies. So I'm partially motivated by my
family experiences and the desire to avoid having similar health issues
later on in my life. I believe, as Master Lee has told us, that we must
learn how to fight the battle at our tables and other parts of our lives to
fully learn how to live the Kung-Fu lifestyle. I also believe ? like
others ? that the body is a temple, and that taking care of your 'temple'
is one important way of honoring and showing your appreciation to God.
My other motivation centers around my own personal challenges and goals.
I've been told by close family members, "You're not going to make it,
leaving good food and red meat." (I've been made to feel like I am the
person with the problem ? ever been there? But I am "making it").
My life
at times is very stressful balancing work, family, in-laws & church with
little-to-no time for exercise. And there have been days where I'd have
rather hit the couch than the weights. But I make the time. Master
Lee
has told us that we should strive not to be the 'best', but the best that
we, individually, can be. Despite your obstacles ? whatever they are,
you're greatest challenges are within yourself. I am committed to being
the best person that I can be ? which has sometimes meant, standing out or
alone. But, I have learned that birds fly in flocks; eagles can fly or
soar alone. And I see myself as a strong eagle.
It is true that your (mental) attitude, (or the positive mental
conditioning & discipline which has come through the Kung-Fu Lifestyle
for
me), helps determine the altitude of your Kung-Fu skills and personal life
?whether your outlook, confidence, fitness, emotional state in times of
pressure or crisis, etc. For me now, I can regularly scale 4 flights
of
stairs at work without losing my breath. I've also lost an inch off my
waist, and no longer have shoulder pain that used to plague me at the end
of every day. I am actually thinking more clearly about work/life issues
and have begun transferring the Kung-Fu lifestyle to
other parts of my everyday life, such as my prayer life and business
interests.
But the real key, to my progress, has been increasing my training
discipline through developing a regular routine, tying my training into
other day-to-day activities; setting both big (long-term) AND small goals;
and rewarding myself when I achieve them. For example I earn my long, hot
shower every morning ? and my crunches or other training are the regular
drill or sprint that I go through to earn it. So, the goal is to complete
my crunches today; I do them right next to the shower; sometimes I'll even
start running the water, and splash my face; and when finished, I know
I've earned it & enjoy it all the more. But you have to do what works for
you. Training is like a series of sprints that make up a life-long
marathon. I train, evaluate & celebrate every day -- focusing
continually
on my mental state, physical form and personal improvement (in terms of time
to complete or number of crunches). And over time, for me ~6 weeks, it
became second nature. The key, I believe, is that you grow and move
forward by winning the race against yourself every day.
Tarik
Hopkins
September 2002
I never grew up
with a positive role model. It was always, “Do what I say and not as I do”.
I’ve always been around drugs because of my father. The first time I saw death
was at five years old. I saw a man get shot in this mouth. As the years went on,
I always did the opposite of what was good. My father couldn’t read and my
mother was always too busy. The streets became home and I stayed in trouble. I
graduated from high school when I was sixteen and thought I knew everything. I
decided to join the United States Army. While in the service, life wasn’t any
better. I headed into trouble again but got out before I could be prosecuted. As
I was getting out of the service, the doctors found scarring on my lungs. That
was when I started having health problems. I lived in Texas until it got too
bad. The VA Medical Center would not see me in Texas, so I had to move back to
Kansas City, MO. I stayed in the hospital for a month and was diagnosed with
sarcoidosis. It’s been bad, worse and was said to be terminal at one point. I
was placed on the lung transplant list. Because of my family, I had to change my
attitude and actions.
When
I walked into LCMA, it felt like home and it made me feel like I belonged.
I’ve always believed in God, but thought He was punishing me for my past.
I’ve always been a fighter (boxing, capoeira, street fighting). Watching the
LCMA students gave me an impression that fighting does not have to be brutal.
Training kung fu has calmed me down and gaining this power has made me humble.
LCMA has also introduced me to Chi Kung. Chi Kung has enabled me to eliminate
large amounts of pain medication and has strengthened my weak lungs. My fight is
now controlled and not as wild. I’ve always been skinny other than a brief
moment of weighting over 230 lbs. I am currently picking up healthy muscle and
not fat. I would like to get to 220 lbs. of muscle with a 40-inch chest. I would
like to become a great Sifu while maintaining Master Lee’s standards. I would
like to also become more of an internal fighter. When a person is continuously
sick to the point that they cannot move or breathe and are always in pain; they
tend to want to blame everything and everyone but themselves, therefore they
never move forward. Now that I have been introduced to the Black Belt Codes, I
no longer feel sorry for myself and have something to relate to. Being a part of
LCMA makes me laugh at the fact that my sickness is terminal. Terminal is
now…terminated!
Tim Bradley
Blue belt & 3 yrs of training
About 12 years ago when I was 26, I started having problems
with rapid heartbeat. I was a heavy smoker at the time and was overweight.
The attacks were completely random, and usually happened when I was
working at my desk. When the attacks happened they would go away on their own
after about 30 seconds. But they were quite alarming and caused me to be
physically drained. I went to the doctor and after many difficult tests, I was
told I had a benign growth on the wall of my heart. And that this growth was
causing the wrong impulses to be sent, which brought on the Arrhythmia. My
doctor told me that I would not need surgery, but would have to take medication
for the rest of my life to control this condition. I accepted this and was
actually relieved to know that it would not require surgery to correct.
I eventually adjusted to the medication and completely quit
smoking, although my doctor at the time never recommended anything more than
cutting down. Being diagnosed with this problem caused other problems to surface
such as panic disorder. I developed unnatural fears that something bad was going
to happen such as having a heart attack, passing out, and other such phobias.
Sometimes the panic attacks could become quite severe and debilitating.
In time I learned to manage the panic attacks with diversion therapy and
other mind tricks that I learned. Eventually I was able to manage a somewhat
normal life, and I got down to a healthy weight.
But I was always accepting that this was what I would have to do, take
medication everyday, pay higher insurance premiums, and be embarrassed when I
would have to talk about it.
But I started training kung fu about 3 years ago and since
then things have changed dramatically. I
started to develop a confidence in mind and body that I never had before.
Through the training and conditioning of kung fu I gradually learned to trust
that my heart was is in good shape. And although anything can happen to anyone
(even the most conditioned athletes) at anytime, I was certainly in far better
condition now at 38 than I was back when I was 26. Through the use of the black
belt codes and principles we learn in kung fu, I have worked to train my
mind to become calmer and to attack those areas in my life that need
improvement. I have improved my
eating habits by removing the beef and pork from my diet, which can contribute
to heart disease and high Cholesterol. I have used the principles to remove
stress from home and work life. And probably most important, was the confidence I
gained from Kung Fu training allowed me to talk with my new Doctor about getting
off the heart medication. After reviewing my medical history and charts he
agreed to try taking me off the medication and see what happens.
I have now been off the heart medication for several months and the rapid
heartbeat condition has not returned. It is really a wonderful feeling, and I
thank God that I am now free from having to rely on medication.
I know I owe this good fortune to the Lord and my kung fu training. And my teacher consistently reminding me that more important than fighting, is to attack those things in your life that need improvement. As he says “What good is it to be a great martial arts fighter, if you cannot fight and overcome those things that are attacking you from the inside.”
Tim Bradley
Blue Belt – Lee’s Chinese Martial Arts Federation
What A Black Belt Means To Me
By
Jason Emile Johnson
A black belt means change to me. I
have had many bad habits that I have nurtured and developed as a child.
These habits had progressed into fears, insecurities, poor
understandings, limitations, and a lot of times yielded bad situations.
When we are young we do what we know and then when we know better we do
better. Being a black belt and
seeking the path of a black belt means that you seek to know better so you can
do better. The black belt codes
have helped me to overcome many adversities by making the right decision at the
right time. I have a friend that
told me that I had an answer for every situation.
She has never seen me go to extremes of emotion even in the face of great
personal distress. My friend though
that this level of control over what I say, do, think, and respond to situations
could not possibly be healthy. I
related to her of times when my emotions changed like the wind. I wore my every thought and emotion on my face and in my body
language. When adversity would
enter my life it would all but destroy me.
I could be kind to someone one moment and then cruel in just the next
breath. This time was less than 5
years ago. And, it was not until I
learned a better way of living, through kung fu, that I finally did better.
A
black belt means fighting to me. Not
the type of fight you do with your fists or your feet.
It is the type of fight you do with yourself.
It is a battle against complacency.
We allow ourselves to die slowly by not doing those things that are going
to gain us strength in our lives. You
have to learn to fight to be organized in your life and your thoughts.
You have to fight to not rest or settle for less than you can achieve.
You have to fight to get up in the morning and eat and exercise and drink
water, instead of hitting the snooze button for 45 minutes each morning.
You have to fight each day to do those things that are truly meaningful
to you: caring and raising your children to be good, productive adults; showing
those you care about that you honor and respect them by giving them your time;
caring about yourself and your loved ones enough to take care of yourself so you
will have more time with them; living your life as an example to others.
A
black belt means being a role model. What
is odd is just how easy this one can initially seem.
How hard can it be to just live righteously and be someone that your
children and friends can look up to? When
thinking of the enormity of the responsibility that being a role model can be,
you can feel quite small in comparison to the task at hand.
While taking the black belt journey I have learned to look at this task
on the smaller scale. I look at the
weaknesses in myself, and I eliminate them systematically. Where there is chaos I seek balance, where there is discord I
seek harmony, where there is indecision I seek understanding.
To be a good role model you have to know yourself and be accepting.
Sometimes when we look at ourselves we overlook the dark areas. The
truth is sometimes dark and cruel. But,
when we face those dark areas and bring them to the light we begin to see how
much stronger we are. Role models
cannot hide. And as a role model
the truths inside you must not hide either.
People learn from your adversities.
Speak of how you overcame the dark truths within yourself and be not
ashamed of where you came from. For
as a black belt you can empower people to do good within themselves by sharing
whom you are, who you were and who you hope to be, especially for those who hope
to follow your path. A black belt seeks balance and this balance gives him
strength.
Jason Johnson,
Blue Belt
Shandalla Rigby, Green Belt
In 1999, on New Year's Eve, I met a man named Mike. We were at a party celebrating the new millennium. I knew that day that the new year would not only start a new century, but a new beginning. Hopefully it would start with this new interest of mine--Mike. I was really excited! If only I knew what a new beginning would constitute and exactly how hard it would be...I probably would have wept for the challenges ahead of me. I had no idea just how much my life would change, but always in good ways.
My relationship with Mike would move very quickly. We met, fell in love and moved in together, thus the cycle had started and the challenges began. Shortly after we moved in together, February, I found out Mike's New Year's resolution was to quit chewing tobacco. Wow! Thank goodness, but that began a new process in me. What about my bad habits? He's quitting chewing tobacco and drinking. Is there something I need to improve? These are the things that went through my head, but I figured if all I did was smoke, I wasn't doing too bad, right? Eventually Mike would start smoking to counter his nicotine cravings. One bit of chew was like smoking 10 cigarettes. Since Mike started smoking I thought I was good for awhile as we both had bad habits we'll work on later.
As we moved through our relationship, things from my past started haunting me...mistakes I had made, family issues, etc. I realized that I was angry about the life I had and I became very emotional and somewhat depressed. Since I was so upset all of the time, it caused me to take an even closer look at myself? What was wrong with me? What did I do to end up here, why do I feel so lost and alone? I have a very supportive boyfriend who is willing to stay up late and listen to me. He takes very good care of me. I didn't understand. I had so much anger and so many questions. I just wanted to feel better. I just didn't know how.
In the midst of one of our talks, I noticed that Mike had put on al little weight. How on Earth did I miss that? Then I took a better look at myself and I realized that I had gained weight also. My legs were bigger, my clothes were tighter, etc. That really bothered me. I began to think of ways to solve these problems. I hate gyms, so I started to think of all the things that I wanted to do in life. Finally I piped up with, "What do you think of trying martial arts?" He was a little surprised, but said he would check into it. I also thought of dancing or an aerobics class, but it was not such a good idea. Plus, I liked the empowerment of martial arts. This was early April or late March. I thought nothing more of it.
In early June, I was sitting at home and Mike called me and asked what we had planned for the evening. I said nothing except dinner. Then he started telling me about this school for Kung Fu he found on the internet. Now it was my turn to be shocked. I was really surprised he had actually done what he said. He always did. I just hadn't seen this much before him. I had also forgotten the conversation. He said that the first two classes were free and if I didn't like it we had lost nothing. I really had no idea what Kung Fu looked like because it wasn't /isn't a popular style. I was a little disappointed, but I decided I could argue my points later. At least it would look like I tried. The only thing that intrigued me was Mike explained a lot of movies used the style. Other than that, I didn't care.
When we arrived at LCMA, I was surprised at how simple the school looked. The mixture of people in the class also surprised me. There were all sizes, shapes and races. We were promptly greeted, introduced to Master Lee McField and given our introduction class, which we were later tested over. We got a perfect score! I was so proud. I started thinking, I could do this, and I have a natural ability for it. We came to our second class and signed up immediately for two classes a week. When we signed up, we were asked why we chose Chinese Kung Fu. I started thinking about how I had always wanted to feel the power that women show when they do martial art. I wanted to lose weight because I didn't look like a princess, and I also wanted to feel like I could take care of myself if a challenge came upon me. When Von showed me her "before" and "after" pictures and said she used to have cellulite but now didn't: I was sold. I was so thrilled with my newest beginning. I was already feeling 100% better. Mike's and my problems seemed to work themselves out. I had been inventing problems because I felt powerless in all my changes. Life had been and would continue to be an emotional roller coaster. I found solace in my training. It was and is my power over life. I was for once at ease and truly happy, which was truly strange. The newness is what was keeping me going. I had no idea just how much my life would truly change.
In July, I had a new challenge and blessing. I got a job working evenings. It was good because money had been so tight that we were shuffling bills to pay for Kung Fu, but it was bad because I didn't know where I was going to fit time in for training. I ended up getting Saturdays off, which allowed me to train. The down side was that I had to condense two days of training into one. I usually didn't get to sleep until 4 A.M. This made training difficult because I had to be up at 8:30 A.M. to get to class on time, it was exhausting. I did pull through. Eventually my schedule changed to days and we moved our training to the week again. I believe we started taking three classes. I had such a drive to be successful at something I pushed myself through. Challenges over come.
During my new job, I decided I needed to quit smoking. I was about White Belt level and I was tired of losing my breath every time I would spar with someone or do anything extremely active. It was late July early August, so it was about one month into my new Kung Fu lifestyle. It was the hardest thing in my life. I was a new 21-year-old; I had been smoking since I was 14. Most of my family smoked and it was my #1 coping system. What would I do without it? I would be crazy. i have already changed my diet, isn't that enough? I kept trying to come up with excuses. I did feel better because now Mike and I were eating right...Yes, those non-existent bad habits were coming to surface. I knew I would feel better if I quit smoking and hey, it was either nicotine or caffeine. It was time to change something else. I chose nicotine.
The withdrawals were horrible. I tried to cut back, but it didn't work. Then I tried to quit, that didn't work either. Finally, I got so angry that something smaller than a twig had control over my lifestyle that I decided nothing was going to hold me back. I just needed to see results and know I was accomplishing something. I was lucky because I had a huge support group that started with Mike. I had heard that for every year that you have a bad habit, you need two weeks to quit. I had smoked for 7 years, so it was going to take me 14 weeks to be psychologically in control of a habit that had controlled me for so long. I could do that, right? Ninety-eight days without smoking...I could go that long...maybe. I was afraid of what would happen, with justifiable reason.
To help visualize 98 days, I had Mike make ma a chart similar to the ones elementary students use in kindergarten for attendance and good days. On one side of the chart there was week number 1,2, etc. On the other side there were day numbers, day 7, day14, etc. At the top it said, "Shandalla's No Smoking Chart." It had 100 days of no smoking on it. For everyday I didn't smoke I got a sticker. For every week I didn't smoke, I got a reward that built the more weeks I didn't smoke...1 week without for a shopping spree of $25.00, 2 weeks...$60.00, etc I also didn't have to do dishes for the rest of the year. We didn't have a dishwasher. If I smoked I had to do the dishes for 2 days for every cigarette I smoked. It was the best thing I could have done. To see progress helps create progress. It was such a good idea, but to look at a chart with 100 little squares on it was quite overwhelming. What if I couldn't do it?
At the end of my first week I had 7 stickers, Yeah ME! I also realized just how supportive my Kung Fu group was. Mike, Master Lee, and Von always touched base at the end of the week to see how I was doing. When Von found out that I had not smoked for one full week, she made it a point to announce it to the whole class, (all 4 or 5 of us back then). Master Lee gave one of his good speeches about taking challenges on and constantly improving your self and stopped the classs to have everyone give me a round of applause. Four or five students may not sound like a lot to some, but when you have four or five students get excited because you haven't smoked for 1 week, it suddenly becomes a big deal. You start off with thoughts like, "It was only one week," and "I still have 13 to go," but then you realize it's been about six years since you haven't smoked for a week. It was big; I had taken my first giant step toward improving my life. To see progress, helps create progress. Now I had 2 types of visuals. The journey had only begun.
It's now been 1 year, but I remember it like it was yesterday. I was well into my White Belt by the time I finished my chart and still willing to push forward. It was only the beginning, yet such a big step. Once that was completed, I could take on the the world. That will forever be one of my biggest turning points in my life.
Since that point in my life, I have been empowered to conquer and change anything in this world I want. I have learned to cope with things even better than I could imagine. I use our Black Belt Codes for the wisdom they provide--not only about Kung Fu, but also in my daily life. I have had problems keeping a job. Sometimes because employers don't like how much time I want for training, other times because I was willing to make the sacrifice because I wasn't happy and wouldn't have grown as a person. I have had many other challenges this year, but I have been successful.
I have moved 2 going on three times this year. I have found out who really takes me seriously. I have been told several times that I needed to quit Kung Fu because it was too stressful or because it wasn't helping or the money would be better. I stood tall and my eyes have been opened. I quit biting my nails after 21 years. I am 22 now and my current battle is caffeine. I have a very fulfilling relationship, I am enrolled in college and an instructor who attends and teaches Kung Fu altogether about 5 days a week. I am an empowered woman who plans to empower other women. My anger towards past relationships and my negativity towards my family has all been smelted and released. You may think, what does a 22 year old have for experience to base these off of. I would tell you, "Never underestimate a person's past challenges for you may find you have less to be angry about than you think." I will tell you as a 22-year-old, remember all this stared at 20. I have seen more than my fair share. I will only tell you this--not for pity, but for motivation......
My father was an abusive alcoholic. My mother divorced him when I was 3 and raised 4 of us on her own. We were very poor because my father didn't pay enough child support for 3 children: one was from a previous marriage. She was uneducated and still very young in the ways of life. My family and I were in 2 homeless shelters for battered and abused children. I attended 14 different schools, each one better than the last as my mother started to get her career together, but it wasn't even until I was 15 that she graduated from college. I was the first to graduate from High School in 5 generations of my family. I have seen my share. I don't regret any of it because it was those paths that made me who I am now and those paths that lead me to be the enthusiastic, self-sufficient person I am today. I am now empowered and plan to go much further. I owe my strengths now to Kung Fu and everything my teachers, students, and fellow classmates have taught me. I have beaten all the odds and I am now truly blessed.
Michael Green, Yellow Belt
It seems to me unlike the most of the world my black belt journey and my life journey does not begin with hardship. I grew up in the suburbs with two loving parents who are both after approximately 30 years of marriage are still on their first one. My dad held a good job that he has been at the whole time and my mom is also employed and collage educated. In school I was a middle class young man who was popular and good in sports. I was a Boy Scout and even though I never reached Eagle Scout I was in for over 17 years and continue the tradition to this day as a leader. I never experienced hardship really. Life has always been good to me.
My challenges started the summer
after I turned 17. I was down at Boy Scout camp with all of the younger scouts
for a weekend. We were having fun enjoying the woods and repelling. I was ready
to repel down a cliff that I had already done 10 or 20 times that day. I eased
myself out talking and enjoying the time I was having. I was about ready to make
my first leap when a rock that I had been standing on broke off and fell. I lost
my balance and fell with it. 65 feet straight down, take the time to think about
it for a minute. 65 feet is equivalent to a five and a half story building.
That’s a long ways down when there is nothing to catch you. People who repel
call 20 feet the kill zone because once you are past that your chances of dieing
from a fall go up dramatically I tripled the distance. This moment in time will
be etched into my memory forever. Most people say that your life passes before
your eyes or that it happens so fast you don’t have time to think. Let me tell
you that you have time to think and realize what is happening. To me it took
hours to hit and was the scariest moment in my life.
The impact ripped and tore most of
the major muscles from my body. My joints to my legs and hips were put under a
great amount of trauma. The whole ordeal left me paralyzed and unable to move
any part of my body except my left arm and head. I won’t go into the months
that I spent in bed. Lets just say I have a new understanding of the little
things in life.
A seventeen-year-old body is a
wondrous machine with the amazing power to heal itself and bounce back. After
only three months I was on my feet again. Now I wasn’t running any races but I
could hobble to the bathroom by myself again. I still couldn’t wear shoes
though because the weight of a sandal or tennis shoe would cause my muscles to
cramp up and I would fall over. Eventually
my body healed completely and to everyone’s amazement I was up and playing
sports again. At the time I thought I had very little side affect to this little
accident and pushed it to the back of my mind.
Fast-forward a couple of years to
about the time I turned twenty-one. I discovered the wide world of alcohol. The
bar and club scene is a magical, amazing kingdom with colorful people and
wonderful sites. I was well on my way to becoming the ruler of this magical
kingdom and its people. I could walk into any of the clubs in our area and most
of the people there would know my name, from the bouncers who guarded the
entrance and checked ids to the purveyors of the fine drinks that I drank, I
knew everyone. I would stay
late at the clubs and go to breakfast with the owners. Then at about four or
five in the morning I would finally turn into a pumpkin and stumble home. More
often then not very intoxicated. Only to wake up at seven to go to work and
start a new day, this day would be much the same as the last.
Living on about two or threes
hours of sleep a day makes life a little more surreal. I was the world’s first
voluntary insomniac. I could go for days literally with out any sleep what so
ever. I was one of the night people and it showed in everything I did. I floated
through life like a small leaf on the wind. No one cared or even bothered
telling me what I was doing was wrong and hurtful to myself.
Why would they though? I held a good job, and I was one of the privileged
people that could actually have this kind of experience. Most people cannot do
this. If the alcohol does not get them the sleep deprivation will. O and how the
alcohol flowed. It was like water out of a tap. I could drink it like almost no
other. I knew how to order and how to drink. I could put away hundreds of
dollars of drinks a night. It was fun and my friends and I ruled the night.
Things started to change about
three years ago. The mornings were getting harder and harder to face. I felt and
looked real bad. The years of parties and drinking were catching up to me. I
didn’t stop however I just kept right on going. Thinking I could still drink
and play all night. The alternative was not faceable. Finally I decided one New
Years Eve to make a resolution to stop drinking and playing all night. I could
do it no problem, how hard can it be to quit drinking?
So I stopped. The next weekend I started again thinking that I didn’t
really want to quit and I would later.
Another year went by and this time
I was going to do it. What I didn’t know then was this new lady I met on New
Years Eve would help me and most likely save me from myself. Her name was
Shandalla. I quit drinking and started to spend more time with her. I alienated
my friends at the time, which helped me stop the parties. I was focused at the
time. I was trying to make a budding relationship grow into something special
for the first time in a long time. I started venturing out in the daylight
again.
Moving from one of the
nightwalkers to the daylight brought a whole new realm of problems to my mind.
How do you interact with the world sober? I used to be able to have what I
thought was very intellectual conversations, now I couldn’t summon enough
thought to barely make it through the day. It was a hard road to travel. I am
glad I did though. It brought a wonderful woman into my life that decided to
stay and help me through the bad times I was having.
We both noticed that I was getting a little “chunky” around the
waist. She had suggested martial arts for some exercise and a way to spend some
more quality time together. I was all for it. I had always loved the old Kung Fu
movies and thought it would be great to know how to do. I looked and shopped
around until I finally found Lee’s Chinese Martial Arts.
Shandalla and I decided to drop by
and check this school out. I was amazed at the friendliness of everyone in the
school. The joy we felt in being there, made us go ahead and sign up. I was
expecting the usual double speak about contracts for my next three children’s
lifetimes but much to my surprise that was not the case. It seems that this
school is not in the business of multiple contracts over extended periods of
time. They are in the business of people. They choose to devote the time to the
people that train there and let the students pay for the training on a per month
basis. This really appealed to me financially and emotionally. Our training had
begun and I opened a new era in my life.
Training Kung Fu I thought was
going to be an easy task at first. I came into it with all of the preconceived
notions of your average American male. These were crushed the first time I had
the privilege to enjoy standing in our horse stance for 162 moves of our form
done at an agonizingly slow pace. This changed my whole outlook on Kung Fu
quickly and forced me to slow down and look at myself and why I was training.
Was I training for the self-empowerment that comes from a martial art? Was I
training for the exercise that comes from the physical activity? Or was it
something else entirely? The
answers to these questions I am still looking for and these change from day to
day.
My training although more intensive then our other students is the same road they walk. I realize that the journey that I am on is not a quick race; it is not even a straight and narrow path to where I belong but a wandering meandering path that I incorporate into my life. My favorite author once wrote, “Not all who wander are lost.” I think this is apropos for me. For my journey that I am taking to fix the small things in my life, to make it better is one of discovery and to discover something you cannot have the tunnel vision that comes from a predefined path but must wander and find out what lies along that path. Life is meant to be experienced that is why they call it living.
Some days the stress from life can
be overbearing. This is where my hardship on my Kung Fu journey comes from. I am
in a high stress job where deadlines can interfere with my training.
I also found out that my accident coupled with my drinking and partying
had profound effect on my body that are still cropping up after almost two years
of intensive training. I am lucky that Kung Fu found me before I went back to my
old ways. I find peace and solace in my teaching of the other students that
takes away the stress of the day. I find it is not so painful to do things that
used to be hard for me as my body recovers from the damage that I had caused it.
This is the first year since my tumble off of a cliff face that I have not woke
up in the morning in pain. It used to be when the weather changed drastically my
body would be in horrible pain and keep me bed ridden for a few days. Now with
the lifestyle that I have adopted from kung fu I no longer have this problem. My
stomach that used to be forty inches of beer gut is now a slim thirty-three
inches and starting to show signs that there is a different kind of six-pack in
it now
I will wrap up my little story
with a poem but remember this is my Kung Fu journey, it is not one filled with
much hardship but more of a final peace of the mind, body and spirit of a
person.
The Road Goes Ever On And On
The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can.
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way,
Where many paths and errands meet,
And whither then? I cannot say.
The
Road goes ever on and on
Out from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
Let others follow it who can!
Let them a journey new begin,
But I at last with weary feet
Will turn towards the lighted inn,
My evening-rest and sleep to meet.
Still round the corner there may wait
A new road or a secret gate.
And though I oft have passed them by,
A day will come at last when I
Shall take the hidden paths that run
West of the Moon, East of the Sun.
-J.R.R. Tolkien
Darrell Ward
Yellow Belt
2001
Several years ago I lost my fiancée, my son and most of my money in the same year. Instead of dealing with what was obviously the problem, I chose to be petty and let outside forces, such as my circumstances, lead to fear and anger. Furthermore, I let myself stray from the Lord.
I decided that I needed something in my life that I could do for myself to boost my self-esteem and remove the sense of failure and despair that seemed constant.
This is where kung fu has come in. Through my training, I am finding the person I was before I let the sense of loss and failure overwhelm me. I’ve found an added benefit. By my son seeing me train and exercising discipline, I notice he has more confidence in himself. Without knowing it, I was using a black belt code and using my discipline to rebuild my personal relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus, whom I love more than life or anything in it. And last, Master Lee is always talking about role models. Well I didn’t think at 34 I would need a role model, but I train under one of the best I’ve ever met. This is what my training is doing for me and I am thankful to the Lord.
WHAT A BLACK BELT MEANS TO ME
Kris Wood
Blue Belt
2001
A black belt means hard work, persistence, and achievement of goals. A black belt is a symbol of rank and honor. On my way to blue belt I have learned that persistence is the key to achieving in this long, never-ending path. I can’t say it enough to the lower ranks…”You just have to stick with it and over time you’ll never believe what you can accomplish.” The journey toward black belt means changes in all parts of my life…from the way I eat, care for my body, approach goals I’m trying to accomplish, communicating with others, and my all around way of thinking. A black belt means being spiritually grounded, being a part of what is right, and distancing myself from what I know is wrong. A black belt means doing what is right, even if that means standing alone. A black belt means taking care of my body and always working on building a positive image of myself. I know I am still very, very far from the lifestyle I want to achieve, but I am also very far from the lifestyle I’ve tried to shed through my journey, and know now there will never be any looking back. I can only continue to try to live life in a positive manner and continue to try to achieve the goals I want to accomplish. I know that a black belt is only the beginning of moving toward a lifestyle that will take the rest of my days to achieve. I hope one day to be able to be a black belt and help others achieve what has been such a positive aspect of my life, and hope to be able to help them achieve the benefits from this wonderful way of life. Most of all to me what a black belt means can be defined in two words, my dream!
Kris wood
HOW I USE KUNG FU TO IMPROVE MY TOTAL SELF
Terrance Brownlow Dindy
Yellow Belt
1/02
Our God Almighty is a progress-oriented God. As a child of His, exhorted through His word to extol what He extols and despise what He despises, I have come to long and to strive for progress in all aspects of my life and the lives of others. The very idea of regression, even stagnation is repulsive to me. Among virtues conducive to progress are discipline, perseverance, and organization. Adversaries of progress include apathy and disorganization. In my ten months of training kung fu, I’ve realized that it is virtually impossible to improve my skill level without an organized training regiment and total dedication to the art. I have a great desire to improve; therefore, I’ve learned to become more organized and dedicated. Foremost, among the areas in my life in which I hunger to progress is my spirituality. I certainly believe that I can use the discipline and organizational skills I’ve become accustomed to while training kung fu, to motivate me to greater discipline and organization in my spiritual life. One thing I’ve found is that the positive attributes in each aspect of my life tend to infiltrate other portions of my life, and thus, I’m grateful for the opportunity to train kung fu and will use it as a catalyst to swifter progress in all areas of my being.
Terrence Brownlow Dindy
HOW MARTIAL ARTS CAN IMPROVE MY TOTAL SELF
Elisha Hain
Yellow Belt
7/01
In just nine months, Kung Fu has already given me a priceless beginning to a whole new lifestyle and a better self.
Kung Fu has improved me physically. I am eating better, exercising more, learning more about my body’s limitations as well as potential. I have learned how to defend myself and have become aware of my own physical strength and speed.
Kung Fu has improved me mentally and spiritually. I have learned through our black belt codes to make peace with those lingering feelings of anger, pain, resentment and sadness left behind from my life’s past experiences. I am learning balance, control and confidence in everything I say, do or feel. I have learned that I have the ability to become a very happy and peaceful person without depending on another person to get me there.
If Kung Fu can bring all of this to me in just nine months; I am not only excited, but assured, that with the help of Kung Fu and the incredible people here at LCMA, I will become the good person and positive roll model that I have prayed to God to help me become.
HOW I HAVE USED MARTIAL ARTS TO IMPROVE MY TOTAL SELF
Robert Copeland
Yellow Belt
2001
I have used martial arts to improve myself in mind, body, and spirit. Martial Arts has kept my mind quick and sharp. Learning to defend a strike simultaneously, at times, requires a great deal of concentration. The reflexes needed require intuition and fast thinking. The body is a temple not a gymnasium. While abstaining from drugs, alcohol and tobacco has not been difficult; removing all fast food from my diet has been a tremendous battle that I fight daily. I have been encouraged to drink a gallon of water a day. Sometimes I do well, other times not so much. By doing these things I am much healthier; which in turn means that I sleep better and I can train more efficiently. An improved mind a body naturally leads to an improved spirit. I believe that having a healthy mind and body pleases God, and pleasing God is all I care to do. Maintaining a healthy and Godly spirit is my greatest and only true goal. For me Martial arts are a part of the path towards that goal. The Scriptures has this to say, “Know ye not that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom ye have of God, and you are not your own? For you are bought with a price; therefore glorify God with your body and in your spirit which are God’s” I Corinthians 6:19,20.